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		<title>By: Tom</title>
		<link>http://nlpco.com/news/2008/08/27/the-inside-family/#comment-421</link>
		<dc:creator>Tom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 23:33:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for all your comments!  

Answering the requests for more detail, the concept of parts and reframing in NLP was drawn from modeling the work of Virginia Satir.  This early modeling was done mostly by Leslie Cameron LeBeau who was one of the original tribe at UCSC.  She modeled Virginia extensively and developed this and many other patterns. 

I've posted a version of the &lt;a href="http://nlpco.com/news/2008/08/27/the-parts-party " rel="nofollow"&gt;Parts Party here&lt;/a&gt; 

Steve Andreas also developed Virginia's work, leading up to his book "Virginia Satir: The Patterns of Her Magic"   You can read excerpts from the book &lt;a href="http://www.nlpco.com/pages/bookreviews/Satir.php" rel="nofollow"&gt;by clicking here&lt;/a&gt;

There are also a number of Satir videos in our store, and of course parts work is covered thoroughly in Section 6 of "&lt;a href="http://www.nlpco.com/pages/misc/LE.php" rel="nofollow"&gt;The Living Encyclopedia of NLP&lt;/a&gt;" especially the more familiar version of parts work, "Six Step Reframing."

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for all your comments!  </p>
<p>Answering the requests for more detail, the concept of parts and reframing in NLP was drawn from modeling the work of Virginia Satir.  This early modeling was done mostly by Leslie Cameron LeBeau who was one of the original tribe at UCSC.  She modeled Virginia extensively and developed this and many other patterns. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve posted a version of the <a href="http://nlpco.com/news/2008/08/27/the-parts-party " rel="nofollow">Parts Party here</a> </p>
<p>Steve Andreas also developed Virginia&#8217;s work, leading up to his book &#8220;Virginia Satir: The Patterns of Her Magic&#8221;   You can read excerpts from the book <a href="http://www.nlpco.com/pages/bookreviews/Satir.php" rel="nofollow">by clicking here</a></p>
<p>There are also a number of Satir videos in our store, and of course parts work is covered thoroughly in Section 6 of &#8220;<a href="http://www.nlpco.com/pages/misc/LE.php" rel="nofollow">The Living Encyclopedia of NLP</a>&#8221; especially the more familiar version of parts work, &#8220;Six Step Reframing.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: The Parts Party at Connecting With NLP</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Parts Party at Connecting With NLP</dc:creator>
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		<title>By: Brian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 21:25:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great exercise! Josh your house seems to be just a wish. This exercise wont help you get a house, but it did help you realize that the house you pictured wasn't ecological for you.

To your success, Brian</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great exercise! Josh your house seems to be just a wish. This exercise wont help you get a house, but it did help you realize that the house you pictured wasn&#8217;t ecological for you.</p>
<p>To your success, Brian</p>
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		<title>By: Lynda</title>
		<link>http://nlpco.com/news/2008/08/27/the-inside-family/#comment-417</link>
		<dc:creator>Lynda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 21:21:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for the posting!  I work with clients every day who are discovering some limiting beliefs and decisions that are running automatically in their unconscious mind (note to Josh: check out those limitations that you expressed in your reply).  Because these are "automatic" and "default" programs, when we AWAKEN to the negative internal dialogue we can astonish ourselves by remembering a successful program that has worked for us before, allowing us to gracefully let the cheerleader in our mind do the work. Saluti a tutta la famiglia.

External things, like homes, cars, raises, money, are merely external representations of our results.  It's what is happening inside, and how we feel about our results that truly give us the difference that makes the difference.  

So, how do you do that?  By getting the unconscious and conscious to form a whole integrated communication system, and to allow the "parts" to break out of their boundaries and dissolve.  These are some of the tools that an NLP Practitioner or Master Practitioner knows how to do with a client.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the posting!  I work with clients every day who are discovering some limiting beliefs and decisions that are running automatically in their unconscious mind (note to Josh: check out those limitations that you expressed in your reply).  Because these are &#8220;automatic&#8221; and &#8220;default&#8221; programs, when we AWAKEN to the negative internal dialogue we can astonish ourselves by remembering a successful program that has worked for us before, allowing us to gracefully let the cheerleader in our mind do the work. Saluti a tutta la famiglia.</p>
<p>External things, like homes, cars, raises, money, are merely external representations of our results.  It&#8217;s what is happening inside, and how we feel about our results that truly give us the difference that makes the difference.  </p>
<p>So, how do you do that?  By getting the unconscious and conscious to form a whole integrated communication system, and to allow the &#8220;parts&#8221; to break out of their boundaries and dissolve.  These are some of the tools that an NLP Practitioner or Master Practitioner knows how to do with a client.</p>
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		<title>By: josh</title>
		<link>http://nlpco.com/news/2008/08/27/the-inside-family/#comment-414</link>
		<dc:creator>josh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 20:35:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How can this exercise help me buy a bigger home?  No matter how much in alignment my mind is it won't get me more money (I work for civil service) nor will it cause real estate prices to drop.   Sure, one can argue that I will be more energized and my mind will, "find a solution," like earning extra money or hunting down a  super bargain.  But this exercise is basically trying to hijack the unconscious for the use of my own ego desires.   There is nothing wrong with these desires, but I hope our unconscious minds have grander things to do for us than become our work-ponies.  Maybe we end up with the house but then we find that we can no longer feel a connection with nature, art, and spirit.  Not such a great trade-off.

Using these personal growth tools for aquiring more external things is bound to back-fire or simply not work.   But hey, if that's what your clients want then give it to 'em!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How can this exercise help me buy a bigger home?  No matter how much in alignment my mind is it won&#8217;t get me more money (I work for civil service) nor will it cause real estate prices to drop.   Sure, one can argue that I will be more energized and my mind will, &#8220;find a solution,&#8221; like earning extra money or hunting down a  super bargain.  But this exercise is basically trying to hijack the unconscious for the use of my own ego desires.   There is nothing wrong with these desires, but I hope our unconscious minds have grander things to do for us than become our work-ponies.  Maybe we end up with the house but then we find that we can no longer feel a connection with nature, art, and spirit.  Not such a great trade-off.</p>
<p>Using these personal growth tools for aquiring more external things is bound to back-fire or simply not work.   But hey, if that&#8217;s what your clients want then give it to &#8216;em!</p>
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		<title>By: Duff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Duff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 20:06:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Getting to know the internal family is a good start, but this article didn't quite give a technique for how to work with the parts once you discover them. I found this disappointing given the setup, which talked about the ineffectiveness of psychotherapy and coaching techniques!

I recommend Core Transformation for the next steps.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Getting to know the internal family is a good start, but this article didn&#8217;t quite give a technique for how to work with the parts once you discover them. I found this disappointing given the setup, which talked about the ineffectiveness of psychotherapy and coaching techniques!</p>
<p>I recommend Core Transformation for the next steps.</p>
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		<title>By: Jan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 19:58:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Richard

I liked this and it was easy to do. I wondered if the video is more comprehensive with increasing your success in holding the positive feelings/images.  If so, how much is it and where can I get it.  Is there a book on this?  I have a hard time with holding/remembering the positive feelings/image especially for specific situations in business.

Jan</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Richard</p>
<p>I liked this and it was easy to do. I wondered if the video is more comprehensive with increasing your success in holding the positive feelings/images.  If so, how much is it and where can I get it.  Is there a book on this?  I have a hard time with holding/remembering the positive feelings/image especially for specific situations in business.</p>
<p>Jan</p>
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		<title>By: Richard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Richard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 18:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is such a great story and a brilliant technique that takes a more comprehensive view on what is in consciousness, rather than just a 'gung ho' force it through approach. Thank you for this posting!

best wishes,

Richard

www.lifechoicemeditation.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is such a great story and a brilliant technique that takes a more comprehensive view on what is in consciousness, rather than just a &#8216;gung ho&#8217; force it through approach. Thank you for this posting!</p>
<p>best wishes,</p>
<p>Richard</p>
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