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		<title>Comment on Five Great Stories by Stories that inspire&#8230; &#171; wild resiliency blog!</title>
		<link>http://nlpco.com/news/2008/11/20/five-great-stories/#comment-599</link>
		<dc:creator>Stories that inspire&#8230; &#171; wild resiliency blog!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2008 21:02:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Riffing on the Wisdom of Anne Frank - An NLP Perspective by &#187; Riffing on the Wisdom of Anne Frank - An NLP Perspective NLP Hypnosis: NLP hypnosis</title>
		<link>http://nlpco.com/news/2008/10/31/anne-frank-wisdom/#comment-597</link>
		<dc:creator>&#187; Riffing on the Wisdom of Anne Frank - An NLP Perspective NLP Hypnosis: NLP hypnosis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 11:01:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Five Great Stories by Stu</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 22:44:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, stories work great. 
It takes courage and faith in a business meeting to use them as a change agent, overcoming self  conciousness, then the urge to explain and then waiting to see if the story "took"... they usually do, but still it's like magic each time it happens, at least for me. Then  again, the more you do it the easier it becomes, suddenly your imagination runs riot and you find yourself embedding dozens of messages.
And them, one day when you  walk in the room everyone looks up and asks for a story.. 

Companies need a new "C" position, CST.. chief story teller!

Stu</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, stories work great.<br />
It takes courage and faith in a business meeting to use them as a change agent, overcoming self  conciousness, then the urge to explain and then waiting to see if the story &#8220;took&#8221;&#8230; they usually do, but still it&#8217;s like magic each time it happens, at least for me. Then  again, the more you do it the easier it becomes, suddenly your imagination runs riot and you find yourself embedding dozens of messages.<br />
And them, one day when you  walk in the room everyone looks up and asks for a story.. </p>
<p>Companies need a new &#8220;C&#8221; position, CST.. chief story teller!</p>
<p>Stu</p>
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		<title>Comment on Reality Bites … Good Feedback Rules by &#187; Reality Bites … Good Feedback Rules NLP Hypnosis: NLP hypnosis</title>
		<link>http://nlpco.com/news/2008/09/10/reality-bites/#comment-594</link>
		<dc:creator>&#187; Reality Bites … Good Feedback Rules NLP Hypnosis: NLP hypnosis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Nov 2008 11:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Color Your World by &#187; Color Your World NLP Hypnosis: NLP hypnosis</title>
		<link>http://nlpco.com/news/2008/10/15/color-your-world/#comment-590</link>
		<dc:creator>&#187; Color Your World NLP Hypnosis: NLP hypnosis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 20:53:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Five Great Stories by Alemayehu Ambaw</title>
		<link>http://nlpco.com/news/2008/11/20/five-great-stories/#comment-588</link>
		<dc:creator>Alemayehu Ambaw</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 14:52:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The stories are simple but great, they all touched my heart, thanks to lisaj (the publisher) who shared us these stories.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The stories are simple but great, they all touched my heart, thanks to lisaj (the publisher) who shared us these stories.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Strategy For Responding to Criticism by Jediah</title>
		<link>http://nlpco.com/news/2008/09/10/criticism-strategy/#comment-585</link>
		<dc:creator>Jediah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 23:55:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Referring to the quote given from Byron Katie:  It is NEVER about simple 'submission' &#62;&#62;&#62; turning the other cheek.... It is more accurately having NO expectations of the reasons for what was spoken or done, no automatic reason ready to be applied. 

I once ran a 12 week summer camp for Easter Seals....a very diverse population of campers,  some considered to be 'mentally deficient', 'retarded', all those labels which are so often inaccrurate and lacking in understanding... My counselors once demanded of me "Why don't they misbehave when you're around?" My reply, which may or may not have been digested by some of them was simply " I suggest you remain 'defenseless' in their presence. Stop expecting them to be like YOU. They are uniquely themselves and with totally different experiences of life. They function on a level that is unknown to you and are unable to be like you in their responses. They may simply be unaware of other options, or literally unable to digest those options as quickly as you have. It is NOT a fault. It is merely a fact of Reality that requires patience on your part to support their experience here as a camper." That was 25 yrs. ago and I knew much of what I said and did was foreign to their thinking...So be it then and so be it now changed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Referring to the quote given from Byron Katie:  It is NEVER about simple &#8217;submission&#8217; &gt;&gt;&gt; turning the other cheek&#8230;. It is more accurately having NO expectations of the reasons for what was spoken or done, no automatic reason ready to be applied. </p>
<p>I once ran a 12 week summer camp for Easter Seals&#8230;.a very diverse population of campers,  some considered to be &#8216;mentally deficient&#8217;, &#8216;retarded&#8217;, all those labels which are so often inaccrurate and lacking in understanding&#8230; My counselors once demanded of me &#8220;Why don&#8217;t they misbehave when you&#8217;re around?&#8221; My reply, which may or may not have been digested by some of them was simply &#8221; I suggest you remain &#8216;defenseless&#8217; in their presence. Stop expecting them to be like YOU. They are uniquely themselves and with totally different experiences of life. They function on a level that is unknown to you and are unable to be like you in their responses. They may simply be unaware of other options, or literally unable to digest those options as quickly as you have. It is NOT a fault. It is merely a fact of Reality that requires patience on your part to support their experience here as a camper.&#8221; That was 25 yrs. ago and I knew much of what I said and did was foreign to their thinking&#8230;So be it then and so be it now changed.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Strategy For Responding to Criticism by &#187; A Strategy For Responding to Criticism NLP Hypnosis: NLP hypnosis</title>
		<link>http://nlpco.com/news/2008/09/10/criticism-strategy/#comment-581</link>
		<dc:creator>&#187; A Strategy For Responding to Criticism NLP Hypnosis: NLP hypnosis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 10:21:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Positive Intention and Adolescence by &#187; Positive Intention and Adolescence NLP Hypnosis: NLP hypnosis</title>
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		<dc:creator>&#187; Positive Intention and Adolescence NLP Hypnosis: NLP hypnosis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 10:16:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Does NLP Influence or Manipulate? by Does NLP Influence or Manipulate?</title>
		<link>http://nlpco.com/news/2008/11/06/does-nlp-influence-or-manipulate/#comment-579</link>
		<dc:creator>Does NLP Influence or Manipulate?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 06:28:59 +0000</pubDate>
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