Which Lines Should You Cross? By Tom Hoobyar Article Word Count 1000, average reading time 4 minutes. Last week we talked about limits — the limits that each of us sets for ourselves on what we can want, and what we can do. I said we’d talk more about how to manage these limits inside ourselves. But first I want to tell you what the mechanism is that maintains these limits. After all, if you
Greetings! Here’s another great article you may have missed by Tom Hoobyar. One of our favorite writers, Tom has some great tips for you on personal limitations. He points out simple things you can do to be more flexible with your personal limits. Enjoy! Tom Dotz Where Are Your Limits? By Tom Hoobyar Article Word Count 1708, average reading time 6.8 minutes. Here’s a surprise. Whoever you are and whatever you can or can’t do,
Yesterday someone asked if we had any processes to deal with job anxieties. For many people these situations can be a bit unnerving. Maybe even stressful. While you could create a specific process for each such anxiety, we already have one for you that is easily adapted, and so powerful it’s almost overkill. It only takes 15 minutes or so the first time, and even less with practice. All that is needed to make it
Stopping by the office last Friday the phones were ringing and things were hopping. Unusual for a Friday afternoon, that’s for sure, but then interest has been up a lot lately. So I picked up a call and had a great (and to me classic) conversation with someone who, like you, is interested in how NLP could help them next. I say a classic call because it followed one of three standard paths. 1) There’s
Beginning this new year I find myself with an abundance of riches to share with you. This week we have two great videos and an essay. Along with the complete “Responding to Criticism” process from our Practitioner Program I’m posting a link to a great video from the TED conference on the subjective aspects of time, and an essay on professionalism in NLP: Developed by Steve Andreas and presented here by Tom Best, the Responding
One of the great misunderstandings of NLP is the misuse of eye accessing cues to asses truthiness. In this essay Susan Stageman, one of our contributors and a long time NLP Trainer, explains it for you. If you missed it, last week’s video is fixed. You can catch it here: http://www.nlpco.com/library/nlp-video/anchoring-tb I’ll have more for you as the software permits… 😉 Cheers, and may the New Year be your best ever! Tom Dotz PS: You
We have a follow up to last week’s story “How to Lubricate A Mind” by Tom Hoobyar. This story is another great example of how surprisingly simple using NLP can be. In this story Tom blends two NLP models, language and submodalities, seamlessly and easily. This is also a very graceful and accessible explanation of the “Submodalities” model – one of the most important models that make up NLP. The Submodality model is the basis
Our world today is on the cusp of an incredibly exciting and precarious time – one in which people are increasingly questioning and seeking a life of meaning, purpose, and contribution. There is a greater call for both sincere intention and depth of skill to facilitate a higher quality life and work experience – for individuals, their teams, and their organizations. We see a great need for leaders and people who can effectively guide transformation
You know what? YOU are amazing. Your presence on this earth is a gift. Thank you for your attention today to read this humble offering. It is a grand world we live in when people across the world can exchange ideas and connect with each other, without ever meeting. Don’t you agree? What did this little intro do for you? Did it make you feel a little better or bring a smile to your face?
“I can’t wait to figure out what’s wrong with me, so I can say ‘This is the way that I used to be.’ “ John Mayer, Split Screen Sadness I want to tell you about a really good day. One of those experiences that lingered and energized me for several days that followed. It’s hard not to be inspired from the moment you wake up to a perfect Colorado Fall “Opposite” day: Crisp AND warm. Trees a