Along with this week’s story about benefiting from feedback I thought it appropriate to include this gem from “The NLP Portable Practitioner Training” Section 4, Strategies. It’s generally useful when dealing with feedback to have a really good strategy for discerning feedback from attack and for dealing with it effectively. A Strategy for Responding to […]
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Because of the requests as a result of the post “The Inside Family” I’m posting this version of the Parts Party format (you may want to read “The Inside Family” first. :-).
One of our coaches told me the following story, and I thought it was such a great fit with Labor Day I asked her to write it up for you. Those of you familiar with NLP will appreciate the elegant use of this familiar model in a specific context. Some years ago, a good friend
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Recently the Allergy Process was mentioned to me as if there was only one version. No, no, no! 🙂 There are two distinct versions, and here are the tried and true exercise formats for both of them! You can find more instruction and framing in both “Heart of the Mind” and of course a full
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In the NYT today is another of the reports I’m finding more and more of these days. The theories behind NLP that were so outre when first proposed 30 years ago are now being re-proposed and validated with increasing frequency by mainstream science particularly in the field of neuroscience. Here’s a lovely and simple example
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Language Directs Attention: Negative Commands – How they don’t work (and do!) Here Connirae Andreas describes this distinction in a context where it’s a easy to recognize the importance of this distinction! And whatever you do, don’t start wondering now just how soon you’ll find ways to use these in your life.:-) Offering Positive Alternatives:
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If you played with this weeks’ Tip, you noticed how anchors already are and have been affecting you for your entire life, and affect you to this day. Here’s another set of examples in this article by Seth Godin, a brilliant marketer and a very good writer. The context is familiar to all of us:
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Today notice the physical anchors that you have in place in your work environment. Does the cartoon on your desk make you smile? Does the chair where you normally sit elicit a positive state for you? How can you enhance (or change) physical anchors so that your work day is as pleasant and as productive
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Frequently advanced students of NLP seem to forget or pass over the benefits and strengths of Anchoring. Perhaps because of its simplicity, perhaps because it’s taught early on in most NLP programs. Whatever the reason, overlooking the effectiveness and ease of anchoring is a very big miss. So the next few weeks I’ll be exploring
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STRAGEDY: When Your Strategy Turns Into A Tragedy by Jan Prince, NLP Author, Practitioner and Trainer All of us operate out of unconscious patterns that “get us what we have always gotten.” When these patterns repeatedly harm our relationships or our careers we are unwittingly creating our own tragedies. If we can examine and experience
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