THE MOST POWERFUL WORD IN NLP (AND HOW TO USE IT IN ANY CONVERSATION)
Beginning NLP

The Most Powerful Word in NLP (And How to Use It in Any Conversation)

Imagine a single word that can lower resistance, activate the senses, and inspire real change.


In NLP, that word is “imagine,” and it works by engaging the unconscious mind to create vivid, motivating internal experiences.


From coaching and leadership to parenting and conflict resolution, learning to use “imagine” can transform the way you influence and connect.

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Decision Overwhelm And Open Loops

What if your overwhelm isn’t from doing too much — but from deciding too little?

This post explores how unmade decisions drain your focus and how NLP tools like state control and outcome specification can help you clear mental clutter, regain clarity, and take action with confidence.

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Beginning NLP

NLP Power Tools

NLP isn’t just for coaches or therapists—it’s a set of real-world power tools that help you develop the soft skills now rebranded as the most essential “human skills” for success.

In a world of tech disruption and AI evolution, your ability to lead, influence, and adapt is what truly lasts.

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Beginning NLP

Shift Your State: How to Use Submodalities to Control Your Emotions

Have you ever felt an emotion come out of nowhere—a wave of anxiety, a flash of anger, or a moment of motivation—and wondered why it hit so hard? The answer might lie in how your brain represents that experience. It’s not just the thought itself, but how that thought shows up in your mind. That’s where submodalities come in. And once you understand how they work, you can use them to shift your emotional state—quickly,

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Beginning NLP

The One Question That Shatters “I Don’t Know” Thinking

The phrase “I don’t know” often signifies a mental block, leading to learned helplessness.

Instead, reframing the question to “How would you find out?” encourages active problem-solving and taps into existing resources.

This approach fosters autonomy and enables better strategic thinking in coaching, team settings, and personal self-coaching.

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Beginning NLP

Want to Be Great at Something? Learn to Model Excellence With NLP

If you’ve ever watched someone do something brilliantly and thought, “How do they make it look so easy?” — you’re not alone. Whether it’s a leader who commands the room, a coach who inspires breakthroughs, or a parent who handles chaos with calm, there’s often a method behind their magic. In NLP, we call that method modeling. And it’s one of the most powerful tools for personal and professional transformation. What Is Modeling in NLP?

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Beginning NLP

NLP Isn’t Just for Coaches: How to Use It at Home, at Work, and When Life Gets Messy

Let’s bust a myth real quick. You don’t need to be a coach, therapist, or hypnotist to use NLP.You don’t need a certification.You don’t need to change careers.And no—you definitely don’t need to “fix” anyone. Because NLP isn’t just for the stage or the Zoom room. It’s for the dinner table.The boardroom.The moment you’re staring at your to-do list and can’t find the will to move. That’s when NLP really shines. NLP Is Mental Gear

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Beginning NLP

Elements of Your Goals to Consider

Atomic Habits or Big Life-Affirming Goals?  Why not both? A couple of different approaches have proven effective in achieving goals, and motivation is essential to all of them.  One approach is the Tiny Little Habits approach, popularized in the “Atomic Habits” book.  This method involves adding one little tiny habit at a time.   Over time, you will achieve some pretty substantial differences in your life.  The other way is to choose a significant goal

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Beginning NLP

Six-Step Reframing – An NLP Process

Negotiating and Resolving Conflicts, Internal and External: Framing, Reframing, and the Six-Step Process You’ve heard of “framing” in the context of politics, marketing, and areas where influencing people is a primary concern. In any context, the party setting the frame has preempted the permissible dialogue. For instance, in the area of politics, the Republican party has very successfully framed gun ownership as an issue of personal freedom. That consistently imposed framing has allowed them to

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